Memorial Portraits

If you click on the link below, you will see some of the memorial pictures I have been working on this last week. I have a couple more that I need to do.   (They are not in order necessarily. Some of the pictures I have posted here before.)

Memorial Portraits



I have been doing memorial portraits like these for years now. It seems like when I start getting requests for them, they come in bunches.   I will get several memorial portraits to do a time.  Then sometimes I go for months without having a single request.

It used to be -and sometimes still is- incredibly hard to draw these pictures for people. When I am drawing these pictures, it makes it easier for me if I focus on the people in the images and imagine them living- If I think about their death it makes me too sad.  When I think of them living, and being happy, it makes it much easier to draw them.    I remind myself of how much it will mean to the recipients when they receive the drawing.  This gives me motivation to get it done.   

When I hand people their memorial drawings, I many times am so worried that they will hate it..that I wasn't able to get the face right, or wasn't able to capture the personality of the person in question.    But then, I will see the person who receives the picture's reaction.   Many times, they burst into tears.  It kills me inside to see that.  But I know that it meant so much to them, and the minor flaws that I might see as such a big problem really don't matter at all. 
They just want their loved one to be remembered!  

If you click on some of the pictures in the link provided above, you will see the stories as told by their loved ones.






 

What did you think of this article?




Trackbacks
  • Trackbacks are closed for this post.
Comments

  • 2/25/2008 5:12 PM Roxanne wrote:
    Wow! Those are great portraits!
    And the stories made me cry again and again. What touching stories and a great way to remember a loved one.

    Roxanne
    Reply to this
  • 2/25/2008 7:52 PM Debra wrote:
    Bethany,

    You are so talented. Also wanted to mention the link on Isabel's page is www.isabelhope.blogspot.com


    Thank you again.
    Reply to this
    1. 2/26/2008 11:58 AM bethany wrote:
      Debra thank you for letting me know! I missed that. I will change it as soon as I can.
      Reply to this
  • 2/25/2008 9:05 PM JM wrote:
    Bethany,

    How much does it cost again to have these done? I think my mother would love a picture of my grandmother. It would probably be a great mothers day present or birthday present. i need to see if i can afford it.
    Reply to this
    1. 2/26/2008 11:15 AM bethany wrote:
      Jm I will email you
      Reply to this
  • 2/25/2008 10:13 PM Dana wrote:
    Oh Bethany! You do wonderful work and those stories are so touching. My 'mommy heart' would only let me read through 3 right now. I know that your portraits must bless the families in so many ways.

    Blessings,
    Dana
    Reply to this
  • 2/26/2008 8:08 AM shelly wrote:
    Bethany,

    I sit here in tears reading these stories and looking at your beautiful drawings of these people. I can see how hard these must be to do but I can say what a blessing you are to those who receive them. God must love you so much...have a wonderful day.
    Reply to this
  • 2/27/2008 12:11 PM Margaret wrote:
    Bethany, that is such a ministry! You are amazing.
    Reply to this
Leave a comment

 Name

 Email (will not be published)

Your comment is 0 characters limited to 3000 characters.